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Thursday, March 29, 2012
talk to your HER
 Hey guys, today i shall talk about how to talk to a girl you like.I have seen a lot of cases when a guy wants so much to talk to the girl he likes, he often run out of topic and starts to find topic to continue the conversation. Awkward after that isn't it? So, BE YOURSELF. Loosen up and let the girl see who you really are. It often seems so easy, yet so hard to do this. You may want to take a deep breathe and SMILE while continue chatting with her. This helps as when you smile, you show that you enjoy and feel comfortable with the conversation, which will make the girl continue talking with you. Meanwhile, look into her eyes too. Smile with your eyes, attract her with your charismatic, friendly smile. Lure her in. Don't be or sound DESPERATE. The more rush you are, the more adverse is the effect. Desperate guys scare girls away. Instead be funny, joke with her and make her laugh, be mindful not to joke about sensitive topics such as weight! Guys usually get nervous when trying to strike a topic. You may want to start by asking her opinions on different subjects, say music and moving further into her lifestyle after that, so as to know her better. But do remember to stay away from really personal stuff though. Be her listening ears, listen attentively and comfort her if she shares her pain with you. Don't constantly interrupt her, let her talk and share thoughts with you. Be there for her. BE CONFIDENT and never be afraid to say something stupid. You will be surprise girls will find you cute when you say something stupid at times. Best part of it, BE HONEST and never exaggerate truth to impress. This will often turn her off. COMPLIMENT her when you mean it, never do it for the sake of doing. She can feel it when you are insincere in your compliment, girls and their six sense ~ Make her feel appreciated, girls like it. If you want to ask her out, just do it. Don't be afraid to be rejected. Don't get too depressed when she rejected you, she might be busy with her stuff. Give her time, she might be the one asking you out when she is free. One last crucial point. If you like her, do not tell her you like her until you have been talking to her consistently for at least awhile and only do this if you find that the feeling is mutual, or you could get burnt on this and scare her away. Hope my post are helpful to you guys out there. Do like or comment on my post if you feel like, don't be shy. Thanks. |
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