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Cheynee






Wednesday, April 4, 2012
my family

Hey guys, thanks for the likes i received on my last post. I personally appreciate them a lot, smiles.

Though my love life with my girlfriend is a pretty sweet one, its not as smooth sailing as it seems. We lost friends, even those close friends. We neglect our families. Often these are the simple reasons that we quarrel over.

Friends, families and love. Its hard to have them all. Hard but not impossible though, one just needs time and effort to maintain and have a balance among these three areas. Im also trying to get my balance myself.

Family is a topic im pretty sensitive over. With army coming in my way, i already have very little time, whats more when it comes to going out for dates and stuff. Im like left with night times after we went home, when we actually can have time for our families.

Our parents age without us realizing, when we eventually did, they were old already. It hurts me noticing them actually aged as we grew old, i bet you guys feels the same as I do. Somehow it just motivates me to start work asap and provide for them, be their financial support, so that they can actually retire.

I used to be pretty close to my mum, that's why whenever i saw or heard she is being bullied by the other aunties, i will always stand by her side, be her moral support, for my mum is those whom will gladly suffer in silent. It never fails to sadden me when i see her suffer.

Inclusive of my girlfriend, they are the two women in this world which i wish so much to protect, so much to care, but its much harder to show how much i care for my mum, for i came from those family whom hardly hug one another. Being boy-girlfriend kind of relationship is different though. Sometimes, how i wish my mum can see it though.

I once did mention about my regrets in life. Honestly speaking, my family play a part in it, i regret not wishing my mum happy mother's day and greeting her on her birthday, ever since i grew up, cos in the process of growing up, boys like me believe its not cool to do that.

I used to draw cards on occasions for my mum, till one occasion when i feel she don't appreciate my effort, when i stop doing those. I was wrong, i got to realize them only months ago, when i found out that she actually did safe keep all those cards i drew when i was young, with her in her those old businessman bag. It touches me but it also adds on to my regret list for not doing anything for her since then.

Im not sure if you guys felt sorry for something you did in the past which upsets your parents, like what i did and make you regret since then, but i believe everyone of you love them just as much as they love you. It may be something so simple, say in my case, a greeting or a handmade card, but it just feels so much better if you were to have did those for them back then.

Writing to here, I just wish my parents will be able to live for as long as I did, cos I simply love them too much. I cant afford to lose them. No one can. So longevity to our parents shall we?

Feel free to like or even comment on my post if it touches you, im writing from my heart, no fake stories no nothing, just my life stories, hope you guys like it. Thanks.















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