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Friday, April 6, 2012
couples need friends too

Today when I'm at home with my girlfriend, I start to browse through songs which i used to listen, my past favorite songs since i start listening to music till those of my current day. It seems like my taste towards songs do change, from Chinese to now mostly English songs, from mere soothing love songs till now those with strong meanings type of songs attract me more.

I'm saying all these to point out the fact that people do change, in all aspects, even myself. Sometimes it just happens without us realizing it, though it will always leave trails like in photos.

Changes make us miss our old times, or even people who were once so close to you before. While my girlfriend is having fun playing with her first ever kinder surprise toy, I shall share with you her encounter with a girl who was once her best friend, for 7 years. I shall call her girl A. It somehow ended after she got together with me...and it has thus become an empty slot in her memory since.

Sometimes i ask her, what if girl A re-enter her life again, will she accept her again? And her answer to me is, though they had quarreled, they have had cold war for almost a year, MIA in each other 's life, no contact no nothing at all, she will accept her nonetheless. Even with all the things happening around her, she will never remember anything unpleasant about girl A, apart from those heart warming memories of my girlfriend and her in the past, when they were in secondary school, cos those were the days. Everything will just be back to normal.

At times, it make me wonder, is it really because of me? I did nothing seriously. Im not even familiar with girl A, she is just someone whom my girlfriend is close to. I never once had a best friend, maybe its a guy-thing, Im not sure myself, so if it happens to me, maybe its normal but as for my girlfriend, it just feel weird.

One can graduate from a primary school within 6 years. A 7 years friendship should be even stronger though. Whenever I mention about how much I have lost after we were together, she will mention hers. Yea we both lost a lot, honestly couples also need friends. We treasure friends too. Love, family and friends are the key components to happiness, real happiness in life.

If somehow one day, girl A came by my post, all I hope is you girls can be the same as before, girls talk and stuff. I won't mind, definitely. Im that not petty to keep my girlfriend from anyone of you, for i understand she needs her space as much as I do.

So ya i shall stop here. Feel free to like or comment, thanks.















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