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Saturday, August 4, 2012
all about love
 What is love NOT?Possessiveness is not love Jealousy is not love Lust is not love Fear is not love Keeping people all to yourself is not love Expecting something from someone is not love Real, true love is UNCONDITIONAL. "To love someone unconditionally means that you love the person exactly as they are, exactly as they were before, and exactly as they will be in the future – because people change all the time, so if you love the person, you will love them even if they become something you disagree with. Love is not about you or your pleasure or your amusement. It’s not about what you get out of it or what the other person can give to you. It’s not about having a trophy you can show off with and tell people “This is *MY* girlfriend/boyfriend/wife/husband/son/daughter/whatever”. You do not “own” anyone. It’s not about you feeling ‘proud’ to be with someone who always agrees with everything you say and do and never does anything you disagree with. Unconditional love means that the person can just live their life exactly as they choose and you will always be there for them no matter what." Shown above is a write up i happen to come upon. How many of you actually believe in what he wrote? I agreed though I've got some pointers which he disagree with. Love is profound. It need to take a hell lot of fate and faith for two complete stranger to be as loving or even closer with each other than their own family member. I've being through a number of r/s. I've hurt others, probably now is my turn to get hurt. I don't know. Nonetheless an unconditional love is something so hard for us to achieve. We grow from each failures. We learn from each setbacks. But can we really grow to learn how to love? Just like what the guy said in his Q&A section... Q: Do you think any human being can ever love someone 100% unconditionally? A: Probably not. It’s (probably) impossible to be perfect, but that doesn’t mean it isn’t still worth it to try, just to see how close you can get. Funny guy~ For me, as long as one don't look so much into the term of how to love and be loved, rather just love him/her in his/her own ways, thats love. Loving someone is easy, whats difficult is sustaining the love. There is no exact ways in sustaining love, everyone got their unique way to do so. One may use method A and it works for him, but method A may or may not works for the other person. So yea good luck in love =) |
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